TEN TRAITS OF A REAL MAN

A masculine man.

1. A real masculine man knows his purpose.
He understands why he exists and lives with direction. Purpose keeps him
focused. His character keeps him in line
2. A real man values himself. He respects his body, his commitments to others.
This naturally builds trust and honor.
3. A real man controls his emotions. He doesn’t act based on feelings but stays
true to his logic and values, no matter the situation.
4. A real man makes time for his partner and children. He knows love is shown
through being intentional, spend time and paying attention, not just words.
5. A real man forgives; he doesn’t punish. Forgiveness shows strength. A real
man creates peace and stability, not pain in his relationships.
6. A real man spends wisely. He plans his finances, avoids waste, and provides
security for his family.
7. A real man doesn’t drink excessively. He values his health, his well being and
stays in control of his actions.
8. A real man is shaped by purpose, not expectations. His strength comes from
self-mastery and self-discovery, not from following some external expectations.
9. A real man respects his lady’s feelings. He listens, values her inputs, and
makes decisions with her, he leads her with sensitivities and honor.
10. A real man solves conflicts wisely. He doesn’t expose his lady’s flaws. He
settles issues calmly and rationally or seeks help when needed.
The difference between a boy and a real man is simple:
– Boys follow emotions; real men follow logic and values.
– Boys are shaped by their environment; real men are led by characters.
– Boys try to dominate; real men empower.
– Boys expect respect without effort; real men are respected for their effort.

Being a male is simply biological, but being a real man is a choice.
A real man provides, protects, cherish, leads and builds. He never destroys.
If you’re reading this, choose to grow into a man. Choose to lead with good,
character and values. Choose to be a real man.

-Andre