Femininity is a strength not a weakness!
Yes… let me scream it, Ladies…” BEING FEMININE IS A STRENGTH!!!”
Femininity is so wonderfully powerful…. especially in men.
What do I mean? One aspect of the masculine paradigm is to resist “the push”. What do you get when you push a man? You get an instant pushback, resistance, tension, and/or… an argument. Pushing always fails for women on a masculine man.
It will leave you feeling disconnected and frustrated if not furious, for both of you. This is a man-on-man approach, and it works for men. Men will calibrate each other and “adjust” the power to function in given circumstances. This does not work for women…it just doesn’t! His resisting and pushing back will make you feel overpowered, dismissed, rejected, or hurt. For him, it’s a knee-jerk reaction. He’ll push back and often walk away, getting away from the pressure.
So, how do you get what you want with men?
Well, how about your best tool – Your femininity… because it WORKS!!!
The feminine approach is to invite action or change…. not tell or demand (Push)
The Art of feminine power is:
“Inviting a man into action or change with your heart, spirit and feminine
energy…. not with the directive and edge of your words.” (Adam Gilad)
Tell him to do or change and he’ll resist. Invite him to do or change and reward him when he does, and you will see wonderful things happen. Men play for points…he won’t be compelled to do much unless he understands what his actions will provide. Those are the points he is looking to score.
Men don’t really want to do or change if they can’t see the value. If they cannot see the reward, the action may seem like a waste of energy. For most men, if there is no win, there is no point. If there is no point, there will be no action. But a man who loves you will do, adjust and change to make you happy.
He is wired that way…and it works wonderfully and… it’s good for you! You will feel connected and cherished by him instead of thinking he’s just a jerk.
Femininity softens men and makes men want to do for you… try it!
Again, invite and reward him, don’t push, demand or challenge. You’ll end up fighting and…losing.
Use your femininity to trigger his instinct to protect and provide, and you win!
Better yet…you both win!